Personality Part 2

Eventually I will get to the deck and the move...I promise. We do have a home phone now, it is (715) 384-9573.

Michaela has started to pick up and mimic the way we talk to each other. While at Menards a couple of days ago Christine and the girls were waiting in line to checkout while I wandered off to look at tools again (a guy can dream can't he). Christine was unsure to what I was doing and innocently asked "Malcolm, am I checking out?" Not at all funny or noteworthy by itself, but Michaela's immediate reaction caught me off-guard. Michaela let go of Christine's hand and ran down the isle after me yelling "Malcolm, Malcolm, Malcolm....." and did not stop until I turned around and picked her up. I got quite the looks from other families, as Michaela kept informing me that I was not her daddy but rather Malcolm.

Fast forward a couple of days and we found ourselves at Menards again, this time looking at grills. Neither of the girls have been feeling well and Michaela decided at 6:30 to catch a catnap in the big green car-cart. (Those extra long carts with the plastic car on front.) Christine first noticed it and pointed out Michaela's state to me. I bent down low and asked Michaela if she would like to get out of the cart and walk. "DON'T LOOK AT ME!," was Michaela's response. Even after returning home Michaela continued to tell me the same thing, even adding that I should look at Mommy instead. Luckily that ended at story time.

New Address

We successfully moved on Friday, with our new mailing address as follows.

Malcolm & Christine Gold
707 N. Weber Ave.
Marshfield, WI 54449

We have not decided whether we will set up a home phone and Christine's cell will be activated next week. We do not have internet at the house yet, and for the time being we can only be reached on my cell (608) 807-6086.

Personality

While a post about moving, workers comp, a deck, new address and the generous help we received would very likely be more timely, I briefly digress a week earlier to share pictures and accounts of our daughters.

Michaela and Danielle 'appear' to enjoy each other's company most of the time. When they are both in a good mood they often end up in a giggle/shouting fest. They take turns shouting and squealing at each other, only stopping to giggle at their own actions before repeating. This is all fun and games until we get in the car, then it turns into a headache.

Michaela has been a ham in front of the camera for quite a while, smiling for the camera and giving us many different faces. Danielle's personality has begun to show as well, with similar facial contortions as Michaela. Both of the girls like to snuggle and get carried, which I am happy to oblige most times. When Danielle wants you to pick her up she will throw her belly forward, head back, squint her eyes, and reach her arms right at you.

Last week on Tuesday before the move we spent the evening with Jason, Denise, and Austin. It is wonderful to spend time with them but frustrating that we a better effort to get together more frequently. We brought the camera equipment with and took some pictures of Austin.

Michaela found my old film camera and really enjoys playing with it. While outside I asked her to take pictures of the rocks while I took her picture. She did it! Next I asked her to say cheese and let me take her picture, to which she responded with "Say Cheese" and she took my picture.

Danielle of course is interested in anything that we have. Last night it was the pen I was using to write notes, but at Jason and Denise's place it was the flashes. I was setting the two flashes for off camera use on Austin but Danielle had other plans, accidental pictures of kids that turn out are great.

Where does the time go

Another week and I realize even the changes and memorable moments in our life I have not shared them on the blog. I'll try not to make a habit of lists, but I really should be formatting the rest of my dissertation instead of this right and need to keep it short.

1. Michaela to bed by herself!! She woke up at 6 Saturday morning asking for daddy, but I was already at school (results were not as robust as I had hoped). Michaela crawled into bed with Christine and Danielle, a rare event in itself. Danielle was too noisy, grunting in her restlessness which bothered Michaela. Christine offered up a suggestion, "Since you are tired, grab your blanket and go lay down in your bed." To Christine's amazement Michaela did just that and slept until 8:30.

2. Danielle is a climbing fool without any fear. Give her the chance and she will climb anything. I found her on the top of the chest in Michaela's room this weekend, arriving there after climbing the small rocking chair first. She was begging for someone to come get her, because of course it is easier going up than it is coming back down.

3. We move on Friday. I'm sure Christine can tell you, with two kids around while you are trying to pack it feels like you have a ton of stuff. Hopefully it will all fit in one big truck, if not we can always get another load on Saturday. I am not sure if I can say thank-you enough to all the people who will be helping. We sold our D80, it served us well since Michaela's birth and we were happy to have the extra camera for Derek and Kali's wedding....but three cameras is at least one too many for our normal usage.

4. People of Nine Springs Golf course (Sam and Marie in particular) have brightened our life for the past six years while in Madison. On Saturday many of the regulars gathered for ice cream and cake in our honor and Christine and I were able to play a round together while Sherry watched the girls.

5. Writing an acknowledgement can improve your mood dramatically. I seemed to have forgotten many of my graduate study struggles while writing one for the dissertation.

Yipee...my defense is complete

I successfully defended this afternoon!!!!!

Reaction from the realist "Way to go dad!"


Caption from the pessimist "So how many revisions do you have to do?"

The list of revisions resulting from the defense is actually fairly short. I need to complete these revisions in order to get my advisor's signature so that I can deposit the dissertation, the last requirement to receive my degree. Depending on the third chapter's robustness of estimates the revisions may be as short as two footnotes and another table, of course it may include a rewrite if the estimated effects are different for the suggestions.

By the way, Michaela and Danielle are not actual pessimists and realists...those are my two personalities. I hope they both turn out to be optimists.

Week in review

I hope a list suffices for last week.

1. On Wednesday I finally finished drafts of my papers.

2. Later that day we went for a walk and Michaela posed a couple of times for Christine.

3. We used our Olbrich Gardens membership for the last time on Thursday, it expired at the end of the month. Not as many pictures of butterflies this time, but Michaela loves her ladybug boots!

4. We closed on the house Friday. Not any complications just an early drive. We cleaned the carpets and took some measurements. Even though the move is not for a couple of weeks I am already thankful for wonderful family! I hope all goes well with a deck and the move.

Michaela loved the new house, especially her big girl bed and the stairs. We picked up green sheets for her twin bed frame, and she already met two neighbor dogs.

5. On the way back to Madison on Saturday we stopped at Baxter's Hollow. I have not been out birding too often, once last weekend with Rich when he was in town but almost a month before that. The girls were going to sleep, but after Danielle woke up Christine had them both on. I had to take a picture of that. We did not see much but it was nice being outside.

6. Michaela's excitement from the new house might have turned into a fever. She was sick Saturday, culminating with an ugly night of medication and not much sleep. She felt much better Sunday and was much more normal.

On to this week....only a couple more and I might find my head which feels like it has been chopped off for a while.

Visit from Grandma Gold

Grandma Cindy came to visit last weekend. Everyone enjoying her time in Madison, and I think she enjoyed it also. Amtrak was delayed and the girls returned to Madison Saturday evening. I played in golf tournament fundraiser while Christine and the girls went to pick Mom up, but our team did not end up victorious.

On Sunday we went to the Dane County fair. We looked at the 4-H exhibits and animals, but the highlight was Michaela's first pony ride. Christine and Michaela both loved that experience, with Christine's joy edging even Michaela's. I actually thought Michaela and Danielle preferring and petting the ducklings rather than the chicks at a petting zoo was more cute. Danielle actually pinched the poor ducklings bill, causing the duckling to cry and attempt to squirm out of my hands.

This picture is not from the Fair, as for some silly reason we did not bring our camera with....oops. Instead it is from today at Waunafest, a Waunakee festival.

Grandma Cindy watched the girls Sunday afternoon while Christine and I went to the latest Harry Potter movie. We had mixed reviews on the movie, but it was awesome to get out alone. It's a bad sign when the last time we went on a date together was the last time Mom kicked us out of the house alone.

The women hung out on Monday and Mom watched the two girls before I got home while Christine had golf league Monday evening. Tuesday before hoping back on the train they stopped at the zoo.

The break of having someone else to watch the girls was awesome. Christine and I both felt energized and happier overall, with those feelings carrying all the way through to this weekend even while I worked at school. Christine is slowly getting boxes packed and I am still working on my third chapter (even though I defend in just over a week).